Etiquette

What to expect from me

I won't call you outside of agreed times unless you've told me it's ok to do so.

I will assume that the email address you use to contact me is private and safe. You may want to set up an anonymous account with a service such as Yahoo!, if you don't have one already.

I will, without exception, follow my security procedures. If we're meeting in a hotel I'll ask for your full name, and check that against your passport or driving license when we meet. Someone will be expecting a call from me and has access to your details in case they don't hear from me, but otherwise they're not shared or stored. If you'd like me to visit your home I'll have my driver waiting outside, and if your address is outside of Brighton & Hove I need to be able to confirm it with your landline and Directory Enquiries. If that's not possible, I won't be able to set out without an advance deposit.

I will make an effort to arrive on time, and call you if I expect to be more then ten minutes late.

I won't arrive in fishnets and a microskirt unless you ask, but I can get a bit summery when the weather's nice, so if you're especially concerned about curtain twitchers, do let me know.

I will arrive freshly showered whenever possible, if not I'll freshen up quickly on arrival.

I usually check my fee in your presence. Please don't be offended, I just want to avoid any potentialy awkward situations.

I'm happy to discuss most things during our time together, and will let you know but not take offense if you do happen to ask a question I'm not willing to answer. I will avoid asking about your personal life unless you take the conversation that way.

I won't leave before the booked time is over, unless you ask me to. (Assuming your side of the contract is upheld.)

I will treat you with the same respect I expect to receive.

What I expect and appreciate from you

If making first contact by email, please include all relevant details such as when and where you'd like to meet me, so that we can communicate efficiently.

Be polite. Call or write to me when you're sober, say hi, and remember that we're arranging a professional engagement. If it's not necessary to discuss explicitly sexual matters, don't. If you do need to mention or inquire about something, don't do so as if you're speaking to a phone sex operator, unless you're already paying me for phone sex.

If you need to cancel our appointment, please give me as much notice as possible.

Please wash with soap and brush your teeth before meeting me. I don't like the people I get close to to be heavily perfumed though, so go easy on the cologne. If you've just cut your nails, don't leave sharp edges.

Please have the agreed fee available when I arrive, in an envelope if possible. I prefer to be offered it before I have to ask.

I want you to enjoy yourself, but can't read your mind, so don't be afraid to ask. Tell me if you have a preference for my dress (e.g. stockings) and when we're together let me know if there's anything you want or are uncomfortable with. As long as you're polite, you're very unlikely to offend me.